This is the final collection of my maternity leave... I am preparing to return to the classroom in August, and this mantra has emerged as a grounding principle in helping me maintain the belief that “my needs matter“.

As a classroom teacher, a mother, an eldest daughter, the sibling of a brother with autism, I was taught my whole life to prioritize others above myself, which means that at the core I’m not sure I can completely believe the statement “my needs matter".

When I am in the classroom, part of what scares me the most, is that it feels like many many external forces are working against me to meet my basic needs. It’s inherent in the working conditions of being in education and working directly with children.

I am unable to go to the bathroom when I need to, drink water, eat food, sit down, have a quiet day, not talk and rest my voice, be still and rest, all of these things feel impossible to me as a classroom teacher, at least how I used to be as a teacher.

The same goes for me as a mother.

The work that I’m doing to heal myself so that I can be a happier person, a more complete whole present mother, a satisfied human being on planet earth, is around prioritizing my needs, which might sound really simple.

For some of us with lifelong roles where serving others was how we found value and safety, it’s really not simple.

This collection represents my work with EMDR to reclaim and reframe the phrase “look busy" which was how I survived my childhood and how I feel when I’m at work, and as a mother- it’s nearly impossible for me to rest.

I’m shifting the phrase to “look lazy, lazy look” meaning, instead of the fearful worry that I’m not doing enough and that I need to constantly be busy and look busy, conversely, I am allowed to rest.

Maybe being lazy is not a mortal sin, maybe it is self-care, maybe we are allowed as mothers as women as daughters as caretakers, to look lazy, to sit down, to rest, to put ourselves first.

So when I imagine this mantra guiding me into my return to the classroom I feel a little bit safer, I remember that perfection is not the goal, I remember that I am allowed to “laze”.

Earrings

This collection is grounded in the Lazy Daisy. Each earring is interchangeable, able to be mixed and matched to your hearts delight.

Relish in the lazy effort it takes to slip these on and instantly elevate your fit.

Apparel

A swishy sweet skirt is what every lazy mom needs- and this will suit you just fine.

Made with pockets, elastic comfy waist (and adjustable straps) floofy ruffles for extra swirl, this skirt will transport you to the lazy days of Summer.

Outerwear

This tye front vest crop top is essential for those in between Summer and Fall days, when the mornings are still cool and the afternoons swelter.

Made from handmade quilting fabric, this is a one of a kind garment made with Moms in mind. This means- snack pockets!

Home Decor

I am obsessed not only with these Lazy Daisy but Disco Balls in general. I can't help but feel mesmerized by the little circles of light that appear when the sun catches each tiny mirror just right.

Offered in a rainbow of colors, each acrylic Lazy Daisy has been laser cut locally and assembled with tender loving care.

Forever Flowers

I have a 4 year old and a 1 year old, I know how hard decorating can be.

I made these cutie pies with the little ones in mind. They make a perfect Nursery decoration, toddler bed stuffy or do what I do- Put them in a little vase and let your kiddos arrange them!

Each one is hand sewn from locally sourced thrifted and vintage fabrics.

Accessories

Who doesn't want to jangle around and hear that satisfying click clacking of all their gems, jewels, bits and baubles that they can bring with them?

If you're like me- you are very comforted by the 90's aesthetic, and these vintage Cabbage Patch Doll charms are just the cure you need to your ennui.

Summer Tank

I am obsessed with tank tops, especially ones that can help ground you and remember that you are allowed to LOOK LAZY.

You're not in trouble if you sit down and rest.

Your needs matter.